A HUMBLE REQUEST
Women are present all over the world. The temperament of women varies in different countries. This is all because of their culture and society. But the women of India are of two types. They are very brave, witty and easily manage tough tasks. On the other hand women are just opposite to these. It is like differentiating the poor and the rich. In my point of view most of the women learn from their elders. Even I learned from my mom on how to behave and how to face the society. She will say, “You should not cross your limit”. What is that limit? If I ask why, the answer from my mom, not only my mom but from all moms is “You are a girl!”
If men and women do something wrong, both must be punished. But the society does not follow this. Women alone suffer, not men. All women should realise this. Why this restriction; that is, why this limitation arises only to women. Most of the women in the world ask, why the society does not allow us to be free. Even a five sensed animal is free to live in the world. But what is the condition of women. Just think of it. Beyond this problem if a women raises her voice to speak for her rights, definitely she will face more problems in the society. But she will not give up because she has the will power to face everything. Many great women leaders had left their foot prints in every field. They became an inspiration for us. These leaders ask the society “why?” This “why?” has that much power.
If anyone orders women to do something they must analyse it and if it did not suits them then they must ask why and they should not give up their rights. In every success of men there is a woman behind it. It is a universal fact. Gentlemen depend on women and women depend on gentlemen. This is mutual. Women and men are different but we cannot say they are not equal. Relationship with women is like having platinum with us. They are precious and costly. If we take leading companies for example women are on top and men work under them. Women is a symbol of silence. But their silence is very violent. This silence has a very big noise behind it. India is known for its culture. This culture has changed from ancient to modern. But the image of women has not yet changed. Great women leaders had first fix their goal. Then they worked hard to reach that goal. They travelled through a road which had lots of ups and downs. It means that life has lots of problems. But a woman will overcome those problems with her will power.
Women have duties like child rearing, housework and other work. Men like external work and goal achievement. Men and women should share their work equally. I do not know how many years are needed to put this principle into practice. When compared to olden days this pattern has changed but not followed strictly. The drawback of women is that they don’t have the courage to say to the society when they are treated wrongly or insulted. They must be frank to the society. When they voice out, all these problems will be changed in the next 5 or 10 years. In order to taste the fruit of success we the women of India should be ready to sow the seed now. Problems like sexual harassment will change one day. The question arises in every women’s heart is “Why don’t they change men?”. In order to secure us we must be in a safe place. Women are not afraid of everything. The only thing they are afraid of is men. Women must keep themselves pure. In order to keep themselves pure they are afraid of men. But what about the happiness of women. I don’t say that women should get sunk in the flood of happiness. But I can surely say that they will make their surroundings and their family happy. When their surroundings and family are happy, women feel happy. See the happiness of women also depend on others. When women around the world join together they are like atom bombs. No one will be against them because they are very powerful. Nowadays women are doing their best in every field, but still some women do not come out of their house. It’s our duty to encourage and educate them.
“Those who can’t encourage them please don’t discourage them at least. This is a humble request to the society from me!!”
Member, Team Of Social Service (TOSS)